Hold Your Own...

As I was coming out of a meeting a couple weeks ago, there was this sign above that was sitting outside the door. I found it pretty ironic because that day and a couple days before that I had two separate conversations with my friends about just this. I've always been the type of person to do things myself. Even when I was younger, I wanted to do things on my own. Not because I had to, more so  that I needed to. If I had a problem, Id try to figure it out on my own and exhaust every source before Id go and ask someone else for help. I rarely ask anyone for help to do anything unless I truly feel in my mind that there is no other way (shrugs). Idk if it's pride or what but that's just how I operate. I feel that if you want things done in life then YOU have to do it. I cant stand a person who sits around waiting for a handout or someone to tell them what to do next. I never understood why a person would want someone else to do something thats going to represent them in the end. That's not being an adult to me. Part of growing up is learning how to be self-sufficient and unless you have some type of disability that halts you from being independent, then you shouldnt be depending on other people all the time. Now I'm not saying that there is anything wrong with asking for help because it isnt. But there IS something wrong when you let the fate of what you want to happen be decided by someone else other than yourself. At the end of the day..all I'm saying is that if you have your eyes on something, get it done. Dont let anything or anyone deter you from what you want to accomplish...plain and simple :)


BE Dope, BE Beautiful,
-Nish